Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Letting Go




One of the hardest things in life to do is to "Let Go". This last month I've been on the only emotional rollercoaster... I finally decided the "sickness" was enough - the ride is over! People in life go through many relationships and some are everlasting while others are here for seconds... but in the midst of it all we have to know when we need to let go... We have to learn when a relationship is unhealthy for our souls and eats away at our hearts!! Most often we realize that when our heart catches up with our mind... for some that takes a short time while for others can feel like forever... but know that if a relationship is unhealthy - making you exert more energy than necessary, causing more stress than need, or changing who you are - than its time to take a reality check! Relationships (of any kind) are about uplifting and creating stepping stones for a better you and them!! Nobody is saying that its going to be easy b/c to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship, its HARD WORK... but when it becomes a one-sided job - its time to soul search and if possible LET GO... The saying is so true - "if you love something let it go and if its meant for you it will come back!!" So sometimes the hardest thing you have to do is let go... but remember things happen for a reason, ppl come and ppl go and ppl stay... but if its not working out... LET IT GO... your life will be so much more with that peace of mind!!

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